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Stamp: We all have dealt with these kinds of peps by PrincessSkyler Stamp: We all have dealt with these kinds of peps by PrincessSkyler
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We've all had to deal with people like this.
People who piss and whine just because you don't forgive them for something they did that's unforgivable in your view, or something EXTREMELY unforgivable.
To these kinds of people:
Sorry doesn't always fix everything. And if you harrass, beg, and shame people just because they won't forgive you, then they have an even better reason to not forgive you :^)

This stamp is f2u! No need to ask!
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:iconponycharade:
PonyCharade Featured By Owner Apr 18, 2017
Now begging, shaming, and harassment are certainly not very effective tools.

Bribery, persistence, and good ol fashion time work much better.  Do something unexpected! A Video apology! A gift of a huge amount of points! Buy them commissions! Or flat out pay them! Give them steam games!

I can almost certainly guarantee that if you wait say... one year after whatever you did then by them an expensive 50$+ steam game from their wish list they'll talk to you again.
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PrincessSkyler Featured By Owner Apr 18, 2017  Hobbyist General Artist
Not really hone. I don't believe that money can buy forgiveness, but that's just me. Maybe after a LONG while of thinking on it depending on what they did, but some things I just can't forgive no matter what.
Sorry to sound a bit negative on this situation, I know what you're trying to get at, and usually I AM a very forgiving person, but it all depends on what happened.
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PonyCharade Featured By Owner Apr 18, 2017
Hmm well I always say "Forever is a long, LONG time. And time is pretty damn good at changing things."
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EveLeech Featured By Owner Mar 23, 2017
I had to deal with a "friend" named ash1rose who acted like I was a giant b*tch despite the fact I didn't do anything to her, just someone else who treated me horribly. That was the umpteenth time that someone blocked me. It's fine she doesn't forgive me, but he Unblocked me just so she could stalk my blog. She harassed me even after she blocked me again, what the heck is WRONG with her?
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Reixianx Featured By Owner Feb 16, 2017
 You cannot unforgive them forever because people can
learn sooner or later. Nobody is a bad person in a way.
Nobody deserves to be called a bad person even me.
I heard people get bad luck for not forgiving anyone, I don't know if it's
false.
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PrincessSkyler Featured By Owner Feb 16, 2017  Hobbyist General Artist
I don't have to forgive them if they have done something enough to hurt me BADLY. Little things after a little bit of cooling off, maybe. But big things, no. That's just how I am.
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PonyCharade Featured By Owner Apr 18, 2017
Supposing they donate blood and save your life? Or give you a kidney after a near-fatal accident? Then I bet whatever tit-for-tat internet BS you're mad over wont seem so bad.
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Reixianx Featured By Owner Feb 16, 2017
  I do plan to give people chances sometimes
if it happened once in a while. Being a bad person
is the only experience I'm having, I do feel guilty about
it and I understand it but I do hold grudges and it's hard
for a person who doesn't have great social intelligence.

 I'm easily gullible until to the point of the 3rd chance,
maybe 2nd if it's bad enough to not trust that person, deciding
if I want to give a 3rd chance or not.

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DepressMiiNt Featured By Owner Feb 1, 2017  Hobbyist General Artist
My dad yelling and screaming and threatening violence on me as a child has shaped me into what I am today, and how I think about him. He still emotionally manipulates me and puts me down and screams and it makes living here too much for me. I'm constantly scared of upsetting him by doing ANYTHING.

I've vented about it on here before and i've gotten people commenting going "aw deep down inside you still love him!" and "my dad is the same way, you just got to help and encourage him!" and "all dads are like that, it's a dad thing!" like most of them try to compare our situations but i'm like, 6-8 years their senior. and have been experiencing this as long as they've been living.
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Inspector-Gayvert Featured By Owner Apr 14, 2017  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
"all dads do that"
um not only would that be sexist but also plain wrong? 
its not natural for dads to be abusive??
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Silver-shadowmoon88 Featured By Owner Jan 6, 2017  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Thank you for making this. <3 :D
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KittenPrince55 Featured By Owner Dec 20, 2016  Hobbyist Writer
I'm never forgiving my stepfather for emotionally and physically abusing me. I'm not ever going to forgive the people who bullied me for three years. 
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shark235 Featured By Owner Nov 21, 2016  Hobbyist General Artist
:clap:
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GreenPunkEmoGirl Featured By Owner Oct 24, 2016  Hobbyist Digital Artist
It's a good thing i'm already using this stamp ahead of time.
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Daylight-Lycanroc Featured By Owner Sep 30, 2016  Student Artist
I'm going to use this more because I've had these fights and I'm starting to question that if I keep forgiving people, I'll cross foots with the wrong idiots.
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Lizzerina369 Featured By Owner Sep 22, 2016  Hobbyist Photographer
Thank you for this! 
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Candy-The-Skunk Featured By Owner Sep 18, 2016  Hobbyist General Artist
This stamp along with some others makes me think so much of an old friend.
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KaliedoBunny Featured By Owner Sep 11, 2016  Hobbyist General Artist
Me, honestly
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nb1224 Featured By Owner Sep 11, 2016
It's actually kinda funny.

People are like: "Mehhhh If u dunt 4give meh, imma r3k u. Im calling muh frinds, and u gunna gt sum!!1!!"


Honestly, what are they thinking?
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Louie-Jr Featured By Owner Sep 11, 2016  Hobbyist Writer
As much as I agree with this stamp, forgiveness is necessary for moving on quite often. 
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Hopeful-Star Featured By Owner Sep 11, 2016  Hobbyist Writer
Bless this stamp
I need this just ughhh
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LazarusSpooks Featured By Owner Sep 11, 2016  Student Digital Artist
If anything, harassing someone for not forgiving you just gives them even more of a reason to not forgive you. Why is that so hard to understand?
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KATZENSAFT Featured By Owner Sep 11, 2016
damn rite
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EarthboundAlexis Featured By Owner Sep 11, 2016  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Using!
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anakiin-s Featured By Owner Sep 11, 2016  Student Digital Artist
v relatable
after not talking to me or my other friends for weeks
my ex friend is whining and blaming other people 
thanks for making this
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whitewifes-x Featured By Owner Sep 11, 2016  Hobbyist Writer
I need this.
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Scorpio13Plush Featured By Owner Sep 11, 2016  Student Traditional Artist
This stamp 
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