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Honestly, the whole "Teenagers don't deserve privacy" thing adults are trending out is fucking DISGUSTING in my view.
Did you know that there are parents who take away the bedroom door of their kids because they think they're "doing something they shouldn't", and will even go out of their way to STALK THEIR EVERY SINGLE MOVE by making accounts on their media, and even installing things to trace what they're doing, even when they're not doing anything wrong???
Hate to break if to ya, but teenagers DO deserve some privacy, especially if you're up their ass 24/7. That's actually a form of child abuse, did you know?Preventing a child from having any sort of privacy is child abuse. Deny it all you want, it's child abuse.
Seriously, fuck your "Teens don't deserve privacy" bullshit.
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arti-e Featured By Owner 6 days ago  Hobbyist General Artist
my mom makes a joke out of it when i say something about having a lock on my door.
every time i pause a video or minimize a tab my dad insists that i'm 'hiding something from him'.
i had to make this very account without them knowing because i knew they wouldn't let me.
my dad would rather have me freeze to death in a cold room without a heater than let me do my schoolwork in a different part of the house.
my mom has opened my word documents and read through them without asking several times.

privacy? never fuckin heard of it, my dude.
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christiianu Featured By Owner Apr 18, 2017  Hobbyist General Artist
i once asked my mom for respect, she just laughed at me

some parents wonder why their children don't come to them for venting or anything
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Yeah, they need said privacy to masturbate 8 times a day and use drugs.
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smolgrapes Featured By Owner Apr 20, 2017  Hobbyist General Artist
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Not every teenager is a druggie, and not every teenager masturbates either (Ace teen who is against drugs here)
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You're 13, so you're only barely a teen. It's not like the transition happens magically on your 13th birthday. Also, did you just admit that you masturbate? You have no grounds to say not every teen does that if you yourself do it.
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smolgrapes Featured By Owner Apr 20, 2017  Hobbyist General Artist
Uh, no, I don't. I'm asexual (specifically Gray-ace). And I'll be 14 in two months. How did I just admit that I masturbate, I'm seriously curious?
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Because you denied using drugs, but didn't deny masturbating. Just because you're asexual doesn't mean you don't masturbate, some people masturbate on sensation alone. And being asexual isn't a thing, it's just people who are afraid to admit they're gay.
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Eaohkan Featured By Owner 3 days ago  Hobbyist Digital Artist
How did you get "Not being sexually/ romantically attracted 2 other people"="Being sexually attracted 2 those of your own gender"?

Asexual and Homosexual are 2 different things.
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RetroSpriteResources Featured By Owner 3 days ago
I got it from the idea that sometimes homosexuals are afraid to admit their feelings.
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Eaohkan Featured By Owner 3 days ago  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Because of blue ribbon fucks like you. Get educated.
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World-Hero21 Featured By Owner Edited 3 days ago  Hobbyist General Artist
Being asexual isn't a thing, you say? Well then, excuse me while I disappear from existence.

*goes to check my asexual hate bingo cards* Aww, dammit...Already have "you're afraid to admit you're gay" marked off. :grump: Got any more asexual bigotry left to dish out? I only have "you're waiting until marriage" and "you're afraid of becoming a slut" spots left. :meow:
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RetroSpriteResources Featured By Owner 3 days ago
Please don't dish out this argument again, this girl's been through a lot and I feel bad about jumping all over her.
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World-Hero21 Featured By Owner 3 days ago  Hobbyist General Artist
I won't, but I hope you also felt bad for all of the assumptions you made too. She's not the only asexual around here. :eyes:
asexuality.org/
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smolgrapes Featured By Owner Apr 20, 2017  Hobbyist General Artist
Yeah, but I don't. Asexuality is a thing. Please just stop. 
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"Please just stop?" Are you upset because I'm making you face your inner fears?
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smolgrapes Featured By Owner Apr 20, 2017  Hobbyist General Artist
Um, no. I am not gay, nor am I straight or bi. I'm just asexual, and it doesn't mean that I am gay and I won't admit it, it just means that I don't feel sexual attraction to anybody.

Please, don't try to tell me what my own sexuality is. 
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Edithel Featured By Owner Edited Mar 19, 2017
Lesson of the day: Not all teens crawled out of Satans ass, you can let them have a bit of fucking privacy without them lighting the house on fire
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LunarLemming Featured By Owner Mar 18, 2017  Hobbyist General Artist
So happy my mom and dad aren't like this, all they do is just check on me during night and sometimes during the day to tell me if they're going somewhere.
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Dubala Featured By Owner Mar 16, 2017  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I feel like I'm in big brother
My parents know literally everything I do
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smolgrapes Featured By Owner Mar 15, 2017  Hobbyist General Artist
My friend's StepDad is not nice at all. 
This friend is 14, turning 15 this October. Her StepDad puts a tracking device on her phone that blocks YouTube, and heck, even GOOGLE out of all things. Damn, I really want to slap that guy for being so cruel to her.
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Bowser57 Featured By Owner Apr 20, 2017
Her stepdad is North Korea. I know the frustration
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smolgrapes Featured By Owner Apr 20, 2017  Hobbyist General Artist
Please refrain from making jokes about countries that are run by a dictator. North Korea didn't sign a treaty that stopped them from making the first hit in a nuclear war, nor did Russia. It wouldn't be a good idea to make jokes like that anywhere at all.
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Bowser57 Featured By Owner Apr 20, 2017
I wasn't making a joke. I am just being honest
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smolgrapes Featured By Owner Apr 20, 2017  Hobbyist General Artist
Yeah, but WW3 could easily set off with a lift of a finger (Thanks, Trump).

But in reality North Korea has roughly 10 nuclear weapons. Where I live has many more, so it shouldn't be too bad (and the UK can't go at war without the Queen's consent, so it should be OK. I trust her, she's a sensible woman.)
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Bowser57 Featured By Owner Apr 20, 2017
Its a dangerous game
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smolgrapes Featured By Owner Apr 20, 2017  Hobbyist General Artist
Yup. 
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MarvelDezzBone Featured By Owner Mar 1, 2017
privacy... whats that?
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FoobyFob Featured By Owner Feb 24, 2017  Hobbyist Digital Artist
shit lmao
i bet if my parents were to see what i wrote/typed to others they'd straight up shoot me

anyhoo i get checked on except at night so i have a chance of more privacy

suprised to see other people have parents with the generic "but im ur mum/dad i am older than u i control u" shit. we need privacy. be glad we aint gettin wasted and fucking people with aids

btw dad i saw your porn history on your phone
i wonder what his reaction would be if i showed his history to him one day lmao someone gonna get a taste of their own medicine
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707Fangirl Featured By Owner Feb 24, 2017
IKR?! I need privacy but my parents are like "yeah right."
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Edithel Featured By Owner Feb 24, 2017
Removing their bedroom doors? THAT'S INSANE. Not only for privacy, but did you know that doors can keep out fire for a much longer time than if there wasn't one? So not only are they being assholes, but if a fire starts at night their teens are going to burn to a crisp. All for "no privacy".
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dorkmutt Featured By Owner Feb 8, 2017  New Deviant Hobbyist Artist
they thought one of my friends was a pedo on google hangouts because she was posting some "not appropriate" things but i've seen her real face and everything, gahh
now i cant go on google hangouts anymore but they dunno about discord so thats good i guess??
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Jesshh Featured By Owner Feb 2, 2017   General Artist
My dad is thinking on getting a monitoring add-on installed into my computer when I get my own. I wanted to kill myself.

What makes me even more angry is that there was a hentai channel that sent me spam on youtube and they're convinced its a pedophile out to get me when it looked like pure spam. I had to get a deviantart without their permission because of how overprotective they were. They always checked on me and tried finding the slightest of things so they could tell me "I told you so".

I've been on DA for 2 months and nothing bad has happened once so ever. They say they know it all, when nobody knows it all.
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FinalLaserBeam Featured By Owner Jan 29, 2017  Hobbyist General Artist
I'm a teenage boy who spends 95% of his time in my room. you barge in you have a 50/50 chance of getting an eyeful of D I C C. I'm not gonna sugarcoat it we all are jerks just jerkin it.
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aleksandraunger Featured By Owner Jan 29, 2017  Professional General Artist
>_> Kriffing hell. If my parents were like that, I'd have shit bricks as a kid. They usually left me to my own devices and hey, I turned out juuuuuuust fine.
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DanksForTheMemeries Featured By Owner Jan 28, 2017  Hobbyist General Artist
i got in a fight with my grandfather two years ago because my parents were asking for all of my passwords and i didn't want to give them over because i wanted to keep some things to myself (like this account for instance)  and he got more mad than my parents did over not wanting to give them over and he kept talking about their parental rights and wouldn't hear me say i had the right to my own privacy... they're all on me a lot less now cause i'm almost 18 but now they're harping on my 13 year old sister and i feel so bad for her
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r-owlet Featured By Owner Jan 24, 2017  Hobbyist General Artist
thank god i don't have crappy parents like that omfg
i don't have a lock on my door cause it didn't come with one
my room used to be an office room until i was maybe like 5 or 4 and i switched rooms.
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linkbois Featured By Owner Jan 23, 2017
Ever since I got a musical.ly account my mom has been non-stop stalking it and sometimes only comes into my room so I can hand her my phone and scroll through every god damn one of my videos, and asks about the people I follow like I'm supposed to know everything about them. Sometimes she doesn't even give me back my phone after 20 FUCKING MINUTES.
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PuppetChainsaw Featured By Owner Dec 29, 2016  Student Digital Artist
Whether your a child, adult, or teen doesn't matter.
You deserve PRIVACY.
It's a form of respect and being a teen is hard enough on it's own, teens don't need you to butt in and fuck it all up.
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Galaxy-Chick Featured By Owner Dec 27, 2016  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
thank god my parents aren't like this
The only rules I have concerning my privacy is "Don't lock your bed room door" and check if I'm in the shower for too long -that's more for my safety though-

My mother says I'm "Discovering myself" so I'm free to do what I want if its legal
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LuxuRebel Featured By Owner Dec 6, 2016  Hobbyist Digital Artist
doing this makes them more likely to rebel, because hey, if my parents won't believe that I'm not doing anything wrong, might as well just do it, eh?

not having any trust with your child, especially if they've never done anything to break that trust, is unhealthy
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Jesshh Featured By Owner Edited Feb 2, 2017   General Artist
luxu "rebel"
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LuxuRebel Featured By Owner Feb 2, 2017  Hobbyist Digital Artist
shoosh
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Jesshh Featured By Owner Feb 2, 2017   General Artist
ok
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doIIynho Featured By Owner Dec 3, 2016
YES THANKYOU


my mother thinks im too young to have priavcy
im glad that most of the stuff i want to keep private are in my family's computer that they barely even know how to use
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splatter789 Featured By Owner Dec 2, 2016  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
my parents used to take away my door. lightbulbs too once or twice. i didn't realize that it was abusive until recently bc like, they don't do anything else like that, so i assumed it was fine?? idk im rambling
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A-Gaming-Fox22 Featured By Owner Dec 5, 2016  Hobbyist General Artist
what does lightbulbs have to do with anything lmao
they're for light, hence the name, i think its easier to hide things in the dark...
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splatter789 Featured By Owner Dec 5, 2016  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
maybe taking away lightbulbs doesn't make a difference for privacy, but don't you think it's fucked up to take lightbulbs out of a kids room?
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A-Gaming-Fox22 Featured By Owner Dec 6, 2016  Hobbyist General Artist
yeah... i guess
i mean it seems kinda random.. is seeing things in light like a privledge?
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Jaguar24 Featured By Owner Nov 20, 2016  Hobbyist General Artist
I'm glad my parents aren't like this.
But I got a lock on my door because when I didn't have a lock, everyone came into my room without knocking thinking it was their room.
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