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Honestly, the whole "Teenagers don't deserve privacy" thing adults are trending out is fucking DISGUSTING in my view.
Did you know that there are parents who take away the bedroom door of their kids because they think they're "doing something they shouldn't", and will even go out of their way to STALK THEIR EVERY SINGLE MOVE by making accounts on their media, and even installing things to trace what they're doing, even when they're not doing anything wrong???
Hate to break if to ya, but teenagers DO deserve some privacy, especially if you're up their ass 24/7. That's actually a form of child abuse, did you know?Preventing a child from having any sort of privacy is child abuse. Deny it all you want, it's child abuse.
Seriously, fuck your "Teens don't deserve privacy" bullshit.
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Buniis Featured By Owner 4 days ago
I remember when I was a young teen, my parents wouldn't teach me about sex related stuff and since I went to special ed, it wasn't taught in school either. So I looked it up on my laptop. Then one day, my Dad looked through my history and started yelling at me... for real ? I was like, 15 when this happened and he was mad I wanted to know what sex was ? I didn't fully understand what it was until I was about 17 and it's so sad. I'm glad I have it better than others, though. My bestfriend used to not have a door to his bedroom... @__@
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Articuno32 Featured By Owner 4 days ago  Hobbyist General Artist
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:iconjennifervasquez:
jennifervasquez Featured By Owner 6 days ago  Hobbyist Digital Artist
RANT TIME:

My friend has a dad who I just really despise. First off, he's so overprotective of her to the point where he becomes abusive to his entire family. He doesn't let her do alot of things and thinks that she talks with boys on social media. He thinks that she talks to guys when in reality shes talking to me and other friends. He's always watching her every move and he thinks that when she grows up, she'll become a killer-lesbian?? Like wtf! 

Also kinda off topic, but hes a homophobe, and tries to make her become a homophobe too. He also goes by strict gender roles and makes her wear certain clothes that she doesn't want. She doesn't want that, which makes him call her a "pig". 

(sorry, the rant is over, but this guy is just fucking disgusting 
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TwilaTheWingedCat Featured By Owner 5 days ago  Hobbyist General Artist
Oh my. That is horrible...
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PrincessSkyler Featured By Owner 6 days ago  Hobbyist General Artist
That is FLAT OUT child abuse Jesus CHRIST.
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TwilaTheWingedCat Featured By Owner 6 days ago  Hobbyist General Artist
My parents aren't like this, luckily, but I made myself a "Hidey hole" For when ever I need to be alone. It's on top of a huge stack of hay in the stall of one of our barns, and it reaches the ceiling. I put a blanket on top of the hay and I keep a few books up there. It's like having a little cozy loft. It's perfect for naps.. Everyone should find themselves a spot to be alone if they can. 
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jennifervasquez Featured By Owner 6 days ago  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Omg that sounds lovely! I wish I had that kind of secret hiding place.
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TwilaTheWingedCat Featured By Owner 5 days ago  Hobbyist General Artist
It really is. I hope you can find somewhere, in our old house my hiding spot was actually under a large bush(Small tree?) Where the branches hung down into a dome shape. you just gotta know where to look. 
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christiianu Featured By Owner Jun 3, 2017  Hobbyist General Artist
my mom contradicts everything

''oh they're you're family it's rude to just get something and leave !!'' then goes on and calls her a bitch (aka the family member) and when i say something about it ''oh you need to watch your attitude''

love how she talks about my private life that i told her bits and pieces about and i asked why are you talking to someone about that ''oh because i can'' what??????? how???

i asked for respect she laughs dead in my face

and ''i trust you, i just don't trust them!!'' if you'd trust me then why won't you let me out ??
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trixxiie Featured By Owner Jun 2, 2017  New Deviant Hobbyist Digital Artist
i agree, my parents are fucking pussies and want to know everything, they're always asking questions and it's hella hard for me to answer them honestly and then it turns into one big fucking fight
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jarleynygmobblepot Featured By Owner May 28, 2017  Professional Writer
Everybody does.
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herobrinerocks727 Featured By Owner May 24, 2017  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Hopefully the next generation of parents will be more considerate .__.
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PrincessSkyler Featured By Owner May 24, 2017  Hobbyist General Artist
I hope so..
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TheSpidersFangs Featured By Owner May 22, 2017  Hobbyist Writer
I feel like I have no privacy, honestly. My mother even barges into my room when I'm changing or getting dressed after a shower. I'm 15. My sisters do it too and don't respect when I tell them to "get out" and my mother has even used 'I've seen it before.' yeah... when two. not 15. I have 'things' now.
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Dekutrainer Featured By Owner May 21, 2017  Student Artist
It's nice to know I'm not the only one dealing with a dad that's over protective

Actually on that fact. TIME FOR RAMBLING TIME!

My dad thinks google "sells" your information to people (i think Google's required to check your search history and give it to the government) and because of this... my dad yells at me over crap. One example is he yelled at me for having chrome on my PC, and he yelled at me for saying amazon alexa doesn't track you. 

I don't like to bring this up but... I'm in a Christian family, and so it makes it worse. One reason it makes it worse is that just because "the bible" says to "strick your child" if he does wrong, doesn't mean "beat your child with a belt because he didn't do the shit you wanted". He complains about me getting on my pc when I get home and calls me "lazy", yet it's the same dad that hasn't had a job for 4 years (btw, just because I'm in a Christian family doesn't mean I am one)

Also I would like to point out that my dad's been making me start spending more time with the family. So his example is to... move my computer out in the living room and making me spend 45 minutes on the computer (what?)

NO MORE RANT TIME YAY!
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NeptuneWater Featured By Owner May 7, 2017
I'm not even allowed to use the goddamn bathroom in my house because my mom automatically thinks I'm throwing up.
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arti-e Featured By Owner Apr 23, 2017  Hobbyist General Artist
my mom makes a joke out of it when i say something about having a lock on my door.
every time i pause a video or minimize a tab my dad insists that i'm 'hiding something from him'.
i had to make this very account without them knowing because i knew they wouldn't let me.
my dad would rather have me freeze to death in a cold room without a heater than let me do my schoolwork in a different part of the house.
my mom has opened my word documents and read through them without asking several times.

privacy? never fuckin heard of it, my dude.
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christiianu Featured By Owner Apr 18, 2017  Hobbyist General Artist
i once asked my mom for respect, she just laughed at me

some parents wonder why their children don't come to them for venting or anything
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:iconretrospriteresources:
Yeah, they need said privacy to masturbate 8 times a day and use drugs.
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:iconsmolgrapes:
smolgrapes Featured By Owner Apr 20, 2017  Hobbyist General Artist
...
Not every teenager is a druggie, and not every teenager masturbates either (Ace teen who is against drugs here)
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:iconretrospriteresources:
You're 13, so you're only barely a teen. It's not like the transition happens magically on your 13th birthday. Also, did you just admit that you masturbate? You have no grounds to say not every teen does that if you yourself do it.
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Halkoopa Featured By Owner 4 days ago  Hobbyist General Artist
I don't even use illegal  drugs and I'm an aromatic asexual myself. And no, I am not a little kid but 17 years old. So guess I'm the minority huh?
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RetroSpriteResources Featured By Owner 4 days ago
Yup.
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smolgrapes Featured By Owner Apr 20, 2017  Hobbyist General Artist
Uh, no, I don't. I'm asexual (specifically Gray-ace). And I'll be 14 in two months. How did I just admit that I masturbate, I'm seriously curious?
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Because you denied using drugs, but didn't deny masturbating. Just because you're asexual doesn't mean you don't masturbate, some people masturbate on sensation alone. And being asexual isn't a thing, it's just people who are afraid to admit they're gay.
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Eaohkan Featured By Owner Apr 26, 2017  Hobbyist Digital Artist
How did you get "Not being sexually/ romantically attracted 2 other people"="Being sexually attracted 2 those of your own gender"?

Asexual and Homosexual are 2 different things.
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I got it from the idea that sometimes homosexuals are afraid to admit their feelings.
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Eaohkan Featured By Owner Apr 26, 2017  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Because of blue ribbon fucks like you. Get educated.
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World-Hero21 Featured By Owner Edited Apr 26, 2017  Hobbyist General Artist
Being asexual isn't a thing, you say? Well then, excuse me while I disappear from existence.

*goes to check my asexual hate bingo cards* Aww, dammit...Already have "you're afraid to admit you're gay" marked off. :grump: Got any more asexual bigotry left to dish out? I only have "you're waiting until marriage" and "you're afraid of becoming a slut" spots left. :meow:
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:iconretrospriteresources:
Please don't dish out this argument again, this girl's been through a lot and I feel bad about jumping all over her.
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World-Hero21 Featured By Owner Apr 26, 2017  Hobbyist General Artist
I won't, but I hope you also felt bad for all of the assumptions you made too. She's not the only asexual around here. :eyes:
asexuality.org/
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smolgrapes Featured By Owner Apr 20, 2017  Hobbyist General Artist
Yeah, but I don't. Asexuality is a thing. Please just stop. 
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:iconretrospriteresources:
"Please just stop?" Are you upset because I'm making you face your inner fears?
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smolgrapes Featured By Owner Apr 20, 2017  Hobbyist General Artist
Um, no. I am not gay, nor am I straight or bi. I'm just asexual, and it doesn't mean that I am gay and I won't admit it, it just means that I don't feel sexual attraction to anybody.

Please, don't try to tell me what my own sexuality is. 
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Edithel Featured By Owner Edited Mar 19, 2017
Lesson of the day: Not all teens crawled out of Satans ass, you can let them have a bit of fucking privacy without them lighting the house on fire
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LunarLemming Featured By Owner Mar 18, 2017  Hobbyist General Artist
So happy my mom and dad aren't like this, all they do is just check on me during night and sometimes during the day to tell me if they're going somewhere.
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Dubala Featured By Owner Mar 16, 2017  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I feel like I'm in big brother
My parents know literally everything I do
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smolgrapes Featured By Owner Mar 15, 2017  Hobbyist General Artist
My friend's StepDad is not nice at all. 
This friend is 14, turning 15 this October. Her StepDad puts a tracking device on her phone that blocks YouTube, and heck, even GOOGLE out of all things. Damn, I really want to slap that guy for being so cruel to her.
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Bowser57 Featured By Owner Apr 20, 2017
Her stepdad is North Korea. I know the frustration
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:iconsmolgrapes:
smolgrapes Featured By Owner Apr 20, 2017  Hobbyist General Artist
Please refrain from making jokes about countries that are run by a dictator. North Korea didn't sign a treaty that stopped them from making the first hit in a nuclear war, nor did Russia. It wouldn't be a good idea to make jokes like that anywhere at all.
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Bowser57 Featured By Owner Apr 20, 2017
I wasn't making a joke. I am just being honest
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smolgrapes Featured By Owner Apr 20, 2017  Hobbyist General Artist
Yeah, but WW3 could easily set off with a lift of a finger (Thanks, Trump).

But in reality North Korea has roughly 10 nuclear weapons. Where I live has many more, so it shouldn't be too bad (and the UK can't go at war without the Queen's consent, so it should be OK. I trust her, she's a sensible woman.)
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Bowser57 Featured By Owner Apr 20, 2017
Its a dangerous game
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:iconsmolgrapes:
smolgrapes Featured By Owner Apr 20, 2017  Hobbyist General Artist
Yup. 
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MarvelBoneHead Featured By Owner Mar 1, 2017
privacy... whats that?
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FoobyFob Featured By Owner Feb 24, 2017  Hobbyist Digital Artist
shit lmao
i bet if my parents were to see what i wrote/typed to others they'd straight up shoot me

anyhoo i get checked on except at night so i have a chance of more privacy

suprised to see other people have parents with the generic "but im ur mum/dad i am older than u i control u" shit. we need privacy. be glad we aint gettin wasted and fucking people with aids

btw dad i saw your porn history on your phone
i wonder what his reaction would be if i showed his history to him one day lmao someone gonna get a taste of their own medicine
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xXWafflezX Featured By Owner May 22, 2017  Student Artist
Show it to him the next time he's being dick 
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707Fangirl Featured By Owner Feb 24, 2017
IKR?! I need privacy but my parents are like "yeah right."
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Edithel Featured By Owner Feb 24, 2017
Removing their bedroom doors? THAT'S INSANE. Not only for privacy, but did you know that doors can keep out fire for a much longer time than if there wasn't one? So not only are they being assholes, but if a fire starts at night their teens are going to burn to a crisp. All for "no privacy".
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