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Stamp: Dear Fetish Communities by PrincessSkyler Stamp: Dear Fetish Communities by PrincessSkyler
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Take note BEFORE you read this stamp, this is NOT to insult people with fetishes in any form. I may talk shit about some communities, but I'm not talking shit about people WITH any of these fetishes, so don't assume anything please kthx. I have a few kinks of my own, but I'm responsible with them (and I barely draw them tbh, or don't draw them at all)

After reading a whole bunch of shit, and I MEAN A LOT of shit. Things like these:
Okay, guys, I usually don't do journals like this anymore.

But, since not a lot has been done about this, I decided to make this journal anyway.
So, it seems we found another LOVELY art thief on our site.
The guy's username is :iconlifania: and he has been a deviant for 3 YEARS.
So, the reason I am talking about this guy today is that he has been stealing art from people, since November
, and…, AND people who are getting angry because others are putting their artwork into their fetish folders when it wasn't even supposed to be fetish related...

Seriously, ya'll need to knock it the fuck off. Coming from someone who has a few kinks, learn a thing or two called RESPONSIBILITY with your kinks. Let me explain what I mean by this:
It's OKAY to like something, but you need to learn the LIMITS of what you can and can't do with your fetish, and what you should be careful of doing, what you should avoid, ETC.

ASK the art maker BEFORE including it in your fetish folder, because you NEVER know if you'll make them uncomfortable or not. That or don't do it at all.
A LOT of users seem to be going through this, which makes me feel really bad for the users who aren't associated with any fetishes. Their artwork is literally being seen as fap material to that said fetish community when it wasn't even MEAN'T to be seen as fetish work.

DON'T FORCE YOUR FETISH ONTO PEOPLE. An example would be  if you try to commission/request an artist a fetish piece and they decline, DO NOT EVER attempt to force them to draw it anyway.
This seems to be a huge issue when it comes to people who do commissions and requests from what I've been hearing by quite a few people. DON'T try to force someone out of their comfort zone when it comes to their own art, whether you're paying them or not. They're not your personal factory, commissioners have rules for a reason, perhaps they're uncomfortable with fetish art (which is usually the main reason), maybe they don't want that type of stuff in their gallery, maybe they DON'T have a reason at all. Whatever it is, respect their rules and DON'T force them to do something they don't wish to do.

Put it in MATURE CONTENT if it needs it.

There are a few fetishes that don't really need mature content when they're ALONE (like for example: In the hypnosis community if it's just a character being hypnotized and nothing more, yeah that's fine, no need for mature content), but if it escalates further or gets sexual, yeah it DOES need mature content. There are QUITE a few fetishes in my own personal opinion that should be in mature content. Heres a short list of what I believe needs mature content.

Big Boobs/Butts
Bondage if it contains any nudity or sexual theme
Any fetish involving stripping of clothing or nudity
Hypnosis if it contains sexual themes
Tentacles if there's anything sexual going on
Slimes if said characters have visible nipples or genitals showing

There are more but my brain isn't working atm. There are some fetishes that themselves alone probably don't need mature content in, but there are A LOT of fetishes that do need mature content. If your fetish needs mature content and someone says to you that it does, DO NOT attempt to argue with them, as you might be called out on it.

Don't HARASS people with your fetish
This means going to other peoples pages who ARE NOT associated with the fetish in any way or form and trying to get them involved in it, ESPECIALLY without their consent. Not only is this fucking creepy, but it also counts as forcing your fetish upon people. ASK THEM FIRST PEOPLE JFC, If they say no and get snappy (Expect them to be snappy because you probably made them extremely uncomfortable), respect that and move on.
Don't fill your gallery with JUST fetish art.
This might give you off as a VERY creepy person if you're not careful with your gallery. Don't put JUST fetish works in your gallery, add some normal works within your gallery too. People might judge you otherwise if they go check your gallery and see nothing but fetish art. It's okay to like something, but DON'T obsess with it like that.

ASK BEFORE you draw fetish art of someone elses OC.
Seriously, DO NOT do this without the OC owner's consent, ESPECIALLY THEIR PERSONAS IF THEY HAVE ANY. You never know if they are extremely uncomfortable with fetishes or not, or that said fetish in general. If you do it anyway, chances are YOU ARE going to get called out on it and possibly even ranted on. Think before you perform your actions, people. This goes for commissioning someone to draw fetish art of that character too. ASK THE ORIGINAL OWNER BEFORE GETTING SOMEONE ELSES OC INVOLVED. If they say no, THAT MEANS NO, DO NOT do it anyway.

NEVER FETISHIZE AN UNDERAGED CHARACTER, this is VERY creepy in so many levels. It also breaks deviantarts rules. Even if you attempt to age the character up, it's still against the rules.
"Characters which have been portrayed as a range of ages in their original media will be classified as underage or not based upon their average age over the series. Attempts to "age" the characters in order to depict them in a manner which would otherwise be prohibited will not be granted any exception."
A VERY popular fetishized character whom is underaged is a ten year old Pokemon character known as May. I have no idea why the fuck people fetishize a ten year old girl but it's CLEARLY pedophilia. SO DON'T DO THIS IF YA'LL DON'T WANNA END UP IN TROUBLE OKAY? OKAY.

Don't upload someone elses art work to a fetish website or a fetish group without their consent.
People have done this with some of my hypnosis pieces, even when it WASN'T sexual in any shape or form, just regular hypnosis. They uploaded it to a site known as HypnoHub, which is a very well known hypnosis porn website.
I FREAKED the fuck out about this because that website gives me the creeps due to the ads. An admin eventually saw my struggling with these types of people and now my persona, along with my artwork is banned from Hypnohub. So if anyone tried to take my work or other peoples work of my persona under hypnosis, HypnoHub WILL remove it (Seriously, why the hell can't dA's admins be as awesome as the admins on that site?).
Uploading someones artwork and treating it as if it was yours in general is bad enough, but uploading it to fetish sites and fetish groups is VERY disgusting if you do not have their permission.

For fucks sake quit fetishizing real people.
THIS IS LITERALLY EVERYWHERE IN ANY FETISH COMMUNITY, Vore, Hypnosis, Big breasts, pregnancy, ETC. People will fetishize real people AND without their consent, this happens a LOT to celebrities. I find this going too far in my personal opinion because real people should NOT be seen as your fap material if that was not their intention. If it's your own persona, THAT'S fine. But if it's someone elses, or if it's a REAL person's photo, DON'T do this.

There's probably a lot more I'm forgetting, but I'll update this stamp occasionally if I have to.

Bottom line: Be RESPONSIBLE with your fetish/fetishes people. The communities are getting TOO FUCKING out of hand now. THERE ARE people who are responsible with their fetish in the communities, but because of people like this, they're becoming unknown and hidden behind all of the sick fucks.

Holy fuck this was a LONG type for such a simple stamp. But yeah, this stamp is free to use, no need to ask!
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Another-Realm Featured By Owner Apr 19, 2017
Understandable list. I don't fully agree with everything like with 9, and 5, and 6.
7 and 8 idk.

1. Really an opinion but ok?
5. It's their profile. If you are just trying to give some advice, I understand.
6. I don't believe in Copyright as morality and there are also some that already give consent and fair use.
9. I can't agree because some people may upload pictures with public domain. If this is about Copyright again, then I already explained it. XD

As a basic human right fan, that's why I give my own advice.
As for fictional pedophilia, I don't want to compare it to the real thing though.

But it's kinda a good list, I just don't find it good to insult others who violated any of the list I commented on though.
JennA-SatanicRaccoon Featured By Owner Apr 11, 2017  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Agreed! Sometimes I may draw watersports (however it's mostly kept to a PG matter and is usually drawn more humourous than sexual) but will put a mature filter on it, or if it's drawn in a more 'disturbing' matter, I usually dump it on my FA account (the better website for that kind of stuff). But it's very rare for me to draw that often. :p
NictheWerecatqueen Featured By Owner Apr 15, 2017  Hobbyist Writer
piss art is not allowed on DA tho
JennA-SatanicRaccoon Featured By Owner Apr 15, 2017  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Yeah, but I don't post it very often.
NictheWerecatqueen Featured By Owner Apr 15, 2017  Hobbyist Writer
that's no excuse :| (Blank Stare) 
JennA-SatanicRaccoon Featured By Owner Apr 15, 2017  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Eh, well I've always got FA to look forward to. :| (most of my stuff is pretty normal here anyways :p)
AshleyWolf259 Featured By Owner Mar 17, 2017  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Well, good thing I'm tame then. -w-
AGiLE-EaGLE1994 Featured By Owner Mar 17, 2017  Hobbyist General Artist
I draw foot fetish art. But I put it on an alternate account under mature content, and I also set it so that only members of dA can view it. Am I responsible? 
PrincessSkyler Featured By Owner Mar 17, 2017  Hobbyist General Artist
That's actually pretty responsible, yeah!
AGiLE-EaGLE1994 Featured By Owner Mar 20, 2017  Hobbyist General Artist
Thank you! :bow:
Rainicornpupsters Featured By Owner Mar 14, 2017  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
I'm friends with a guy who's mostly responsible about his fetish. He doesn't post it usually but when he does he makes sure to censor it or put a disclaimer on it. So I'm glad for that.
Violet-Illusions Featured By Owner Mar 6, 2017
this. thiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiis. so much this. some people (for real though, MOST people...) are so utterly irresponsible about their kinks. like having such interests in and of itself is fine but people really need to stop trying to force it on others. -.- i lost my best friend previously cause she suddenly started treating me as nothing but a fetish model, like??? as soon as people think you might be into (or even "ok") with their kinks they start treating you like their own personal pornbot - ^ -;;;; so sickening

stamp and description totally right on tbh, except a number of people use alts for #5 cause yeaa XD
Strawberry-Imp Featured By Owner Feb 11, 2017  New Deviant
I agree with most of this, except number 5. As someone who has tried doing a mix of fetish and 'normal' art on my main account I find that it just completely divides my viewers. The people who like fetish art want it more frequently, and I have lost friends for posting fetish art. So I always find it easier to just make a separate account to fill to the brim with my kink art. Then people who don't like that stuff can stay away, and those who want to see more fetish art get what they want, and I don't have to worry about an awkward tug of war.

But that's just my experience, the rest of this stamp is perf. ;;
BlueBlur62391 Featured By Owner Feb 6, 2017  Hobbyist Digital Artist
s-ilyne Featured By Owner Feb 6, 2017  Hobbyist General Artist
    as a transman, i can't tell you how many times i come across trans fetish art (and photography!!!) in one day. this goes with the "don't fetishize real people" and should stop. it's one of the reasons i refuse to have it written on my page im trans
Miss-Dino Featured By Owner Jan 24, 2017  Student Traditional Artist
As a vore fan, I can 100% get behind this.
Green-Eyed-Dragoness Featured By Owner Jan 24, 2017  Student General Artist
Hey Sky, I'm going to feature your stamp into my journal.

I hope you will be okay with that sis. ;v;
PrincessSkyler Featured By Owner Jan 24, 2017  Hobbyist General Artist
I'm fine with that!
Purpulear Featured By Owner Jan 24, 2017  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Holy fuck everything in the description is so true. Especially that one of real people.
I like vore, but every time ive seen it done with real people I cringe so hard.

Overall I completely agree with you
Lazer-Bunny Featured By Owner Jan 24, 2017  Student Digital Artist
Omg thank you!! I'm really tired of my art being put in fetish folders and the whole child fetish art thing is absolutely disgusting.
SuperMarioEmblem Featured By Owner Jan 23, 2017  Hobbyist Artist
I totally agree with this.
I myself have some fetishes & agree that people should be responsible with them.
IndiePerverture Featured By Owner Jan 23, 2017   Digital Artist

I know it's a personal list, but Big Boobs/Butts are allowed without mature content as long if they won't use it sexually, or depending of the clothes type.
But really. DeviantART gives no crap when there's big boobs/butts. Especially when they're implied nudity, such as Showers scenes, but the crotch and breasts was covered.

"If your fetish needs mature content and someone says to you that it does, DO NOT attempt to argue with them." But i still have the guts to refuse them. I will block them if they start to argue or try hard convincing me in a way with me. Or i'll just decide if Myself or DeviantART marks my picture as mature content. Unless, if that art was intention to sexualize people. :lol:

"For fucks sake quit fetishizing real people." I'm a real people, and i use myself as a persona to fetishize myself. ... So that mean i can't use my character to fetishize? o:

"ASK BEFORE you draw fetish art of someone elses OC." Unless if that person is a fetish artist like me, or used as a gift to my fellow fetish artist friend. But i will NEVER do that from a non-fetish artist.

"Don't fill your gallery with JUST fetish art." I only use fetishes for my character's perks and abilities, not just to arouse viewers and gathering attention. I don't constantly making fetish art and marking all of my content as mature content. I want no damn extreme perverts on my comment section.

"DON'T FETISHIZE CHILDREN FOR FUCKS SAKE." There's soft fetishes in Cartoon shows such as Vore, Inflation, Weight Gain, and Diapers. They don't use them sexually. They only use them humor. ... But i never ever draw under the age of 18 characters in a sexualized fetish situation. I always draw 18+ characters, just in case if i want to make an intentionally sexual picture.

"Don't HARASS people with your fetish" I'm not part of it. Tell that to the rest of the Fetish Community. They have no respect of everyone's boundaries.
PrincessSkyler Featured By Owner Jan 23, 2017  Hobbyist General Artist
IndiePerverture Featured By Owner Jan 23, 2017   Digital Artist
You're welcome. xD
Theninjasibs Featured By Owner Jan 23, 2017  Hobbyist Writer
Wow, I can't believe this kind of thing actually needs a stamp. Honestly, I have my own kinks, and it's not that hard to control yourself from my experience (tbh, I can't draw tho and I don't actually submit that kind of stuff because I don't want any of my readers to be uncomfortable with my writing). It really only takes common sense to understand what's alright to do with your interests.

For example, when role playing you don't force your love for hypnosis on people. You allow them to choose if they want to do that (I try but plot ends up going somewhere else...). I have things I'm interested in, but if I'm not sure if you'd like that to happen to your character, I wouldn't even bring it up.

It's not that hard to control yourself. It just takes a little common sense and humanity.
Green-Eyed-Dragoness Featured By Owner Jan 23, 2017  Student General Artist
Hey Skyler, I want to thank you for including my journal into your stamp.

I honestly am sick and tried that people like still do this in our community.

And, I don't know about any of you, but shit like this really does need to stop.

So, once again, thank you so much for this.
PrincessSkyler Featured By Owner Jan 23, 2017  Hobbyist General Artist
Not a problem! After seeing that, along with a bunch of people I watch talk about how they're sick of their artwork ending up in fetish folders, I feel I HAD to say something, on break or not.
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